When you add a non-American to an American family, you have to explain a lot. Things like football. That the team you are playing is the opponent, not the "enemy." We can not expect him to understand or act like an American for quite a while.
We just came back from the tailgating going on at the first Pitt State game. Sarah and I found ourselves trying not to be offended at the behavior of the tailgaters. As if we expected non-Christians to act like Christ.
God help us to love people just as they are, in the same way that Christ loves us!